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  • The Purity Culture Dropout™ Community is a private space away from social media where you can learn and heal in a group with sex education classes, support groups, and more.

    It is also the most affordable way to work with Erica.

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  • Purity Culture Dropout ™️ is a six week intensive sexuality education and coaching program for folks who were raised in purity culture and who are seeking the queer inclusive, shame free, trauma informed, medically accurate, and comprehensive sex education they need. The program consists of intensive one-on-one work with me, individualized sex education assignments, and group support.

    PCD runs several times per year.

    Purity Culture Dropout ™️ Queer Support Groups- PCD Queer Support Groups are 8 week groups that provide support, education, and community to LGBTQ+ people raised in purity culture. The groups run in cycles, and each cycle contains a new group of participants.

    To receive announcements about upcoming rounds of The Purity Culture Dropout Program or the PCD Queer Support Groups, please enter your email address here.

  • I have extensive experience providing one-on-one, individualized, trauma informed sex education to people of all ages. My approach is client-centered and compassionate; I strive to make my clients as comfortable as possible when discussing often difficult subject matter.

    Topics that folks have booked individual sessions for have included:

    • dealing with a new sexual health issue⁣

    • navigating sexuality after purity culture⁣

    • casual sex and dating

    • sexual communication

    • having the “sex talk” with children⁣

    • parenting queer/trans kids⁣

    • supporting someone else’s sexuality or gender

    • Coming to terms with your sexual orientation⁣⁣

    • How to explore your queerness when in a straight-appearing partnership

    • dating/sex after divorce- what do I need to know?⁣

    • choosing the right birth control method for me

    • sexual health/safety/harm reduction⁣

    • partner communication⁣ and relationship struggles

    • pleasure⁣

    • exploring queer sexuality⁣

    • “am I normal?” ⁣

    • and a whole host of other things

    Sign up for a one hour sex education session - Pricing: $150/hour long session

    Sign up for a 30 minute sex education session - Pricing: $75/30 minute session

    Sign up for a one hour couples sex education session - Pricing: $200/hour long session

    Alternatively, you can Ask Me To Help You Out via email. This service is most affordable and for people who feel shy about talking in person! Please use this if you only have one or two specific questions you''d like me to answer. It's also appropriate for people who are looking for specific resources or advice. Please do not book this option if you have a large general question such as "How do I heal from purity culture?"

    Ask me a question via email - Pricing: $55/per question

  • I am available for professional consultations with emerging sexuality professionals, students, and other human service professionals such as therapists, teachers, and life coaches. With over two decades of work as a sexuality educator, I can offer insight and direction to folks who have questions about specific sexuality issues as it relates to their own work, or who are new to the sexuality professional space and want to learn more.

    Price: $150/ hr for established service professionals, Sliding Scale beginning at $85 for students or emerging professionals.

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    Topics that folks have booked individual consultations for have included: 

    • Supervision/support for other sex educators⁣

    • Support and guidance for therapists/ clinicians who have clients

      dealing with the effects of purity culture

    • Help me plan a sex education event at my school or organization 

    • How can my business or project be more LGBTQ+ affirming? ⁣

    • How can I best care for my LGBTQ+ patients/clients? ⁣

    • Advise me on my sexuality education and career path 

    • Consult on a difficult client case

    • Provide consultation on a sexuality-related juvenile justice issue

    • And more! Just ask and as always, I will let you know if I’m the right fit for your needs

  • Speaking and workshops:

    I am available for speaking engagements to both youth and adult audiences. My educational presentations, keynotes, speeches, and workshops are tailored to the individual needs of my audiences.

    I speak at colleges, universities, high schools, conferences, health fairs, community events, etc. Please see my LinkedIn for examples.

    Trainings:

    • I offer LGBTQ+ competency trainings for businesses, organizations, individual professionals, small schools, medical and legal professionals, and nonprofits. Inquire about pricing! My trainings can be web-based or in person depending on your location and budget.

    • Other training topics: purity culture, purity culture in sex education, LGBTQ+ youth, gender and sexuality, adolescent sexuality and sexual health, HIV prevention, sexuality issues facing justice involved youth, and other general sexuality topics.

    If you are interested in a custom training on a topic that you don’t see listed here, just ask!