Sex education & healing after high control religion.

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You deserve to understand your body, embrace your sexuality, and find joy without shame. For those raised in purity culture, messages about sex were rooted in fear, silence, and control. Virginity was prized above all else, sexual desire was condemned, and women, queer, and trans people were often left shrouded in shame. The results have been devastating: fear of intimacy, painful or unsatisfying sex, and a lingering sense of brokenness.

In The Purity Culture Recovery Guide, sex educator Erica Smith-founder of the Purity Culture Dropout® program-offers the comprehensive, inclusive, and trauma-informed sex education many never received. Drawing on more than two decades of professional experience, Smith replaces shame with empathy, self-compassion, and empowerment. She provides medically accurate information about bodies, birth control, pleasure, communication, consent, and abortion, alongside affirming discussions of gender, sexuality, and relationships.


Smith's approach is both practical and healing. Readers will learn how to set boundaries, challenge damaging beliefs, explore their own sexual values, and build a new sexual ethic based on respect, autonomy, and joy. Most of all, this book insists that there is nothing wrong with you.

Whether you are beginning your recovery from purity culture or seeking to deepen your sexual self-understanding, The Purity Culture Recovery Guide is an essential, shame-free guide to reclaiming pleasure and rewriting your sexual story.

Erica Smith, a sex educator with long brown hair, wearing red lipstick, makeup, and hoop earrings, stands against a light green wall.

Hi! I’m Erica.

I offer accurate, comprehensive, compassionate sexuality education that is inclusive to all, with a specialization in sex education and support after high control religion.

Join the The Purity Culture Dropout™ Community

Heal from purity culture & learn crucial information with a private community who supports and understands you.

Here’s what you get:

Drop in support group space where you can connect with others, facilitated by Erica 

Regular prompts and questions on a variety of relevant topics

An open community forum to connect and share in a secure space away from social media

Biweekly sex ed classes (live & recorded) 

Weekly values exploration exercises & weekly written sex ed mini-lessons

Guest teachers on specialty topics